Not Married Over 40

Well the other day my girlfriend got engaged. I was really happy for her. I did get a little jealous because this is going to be her second marriage. Now we have been friends for only 1 year so I am reallly really happy for her. Now I feel and I am pretty sure others will agree, if it is one of your immediate friends like the ones you are raised with since forever, if it was one of them I would have been so full of jealousy. I would feel like that because you know you and your girls have alot in common and for one to find true love and marriage, well you know we get over it.

This website:http://http://www.encyclopedia.com/doc/1G1-18325060.html gives a good article on the views from a man decribing how it is to be a male sinle and over 40. which leads me to think, when a man is single and over 40 are the reasons because he might be gay, afraid of committment, or just being selfish? Well my answer is two out of three he is afraid they all are and yes he is selfish. Half of the time these men think that we want to commit because we want to tie them down well that is sooooo old. As far as the gay thing go well I only have been dealing with black men and I believe the gay thing its not just in them. Now don't get me wrong I am not saying that I am naive to the situation,i have a very good gay friend every woman does, but that it hasn't happen, thank goodness.

This website: http://http://www.answerology.com/index.aspx/question/2583530_Never-married-and-over-40what-do-you-think.html, it is a blogg that has lots of women describing their reasons why they are 40 and not married. Some of the reasons are similar to mine and funny because they are alot of women that feel the same way I feel about not being married over 40. One of the bloggs talks about this young lady having not found mr right, well i say good luck to that and i hope she does find him.

Another question I ask myself is, am I really selfish because I only like certain type of men? My girlfriends and I were talking about that one day and I asked that question, now most of them are married, and they sort of molded them a little to what they like. Is that selfish and stop being so picky about the type of man you want and grab the one that does not have the things you like in a man. Well for me it is kind of hard becqause I only like one particular man he has to be 6' to 65, dark tone, 250 to 350, with a little muscle and a little pinch or two lol lol. I sometimes sit by myself and I say maybre this is one of the reasons that I am still single because I only want one type of man, WOW, plz feel free to comment on this one.

This article: http://http://marriagepartner.com/forum/showthread.php?p=30986 talks about one important thing religion. Whether you are amrried or not I always feel when meeting a man to sort of understand and know what is his religion, I dont know if this has anything to do with this topic, but you never know when your time comes and are about to make this person your husband know about his religion. You know this is a subject that we woman do not concern ourselves with maybe its because you dont need to get married in a church anymore but if so and the time comes for a woman to get married the old fashion church ceromony is the way to go, think about this one.