Not Married over 40

Last I spoke about scorned men and that I have one. Let me briefly explain about the reasons, well first he was engaged years ago but she messed it up and was with someone else. They say that they are two sides to every story well for the matter you can never change a h-- into a housewife. The second well something similar but like I said before there are two sides but I witnessed a phone call and boy it put thoughts in my ear. So when I met this man he had explain to me why he tatooed those two years on his wrists, it is because he was really hurt. You know what I told him Jesus if tatooed all the times I was hurt, boy my whole body would be covered. Well as you can see how much this will have a man say or do. When a man is scorned it is very hard for them to open up to another woman, in my case it is driving me crazy but I could not take it anymore so i had to leave him. I did everything to show this man how much I love him but it just was not enough. Believe it or not he calls me every now and then but then backs down. It pisses me off with him up until a couple of weeks ago that I told him I am not playing any games, he try to tell me that the things I told him havent settled so it is what it is. do you know how much i hate that saying "it is what it is", so I just plainly without even getting all upset and told him to stop feeling like that and call me when he is ready to really open up with me well its been what about 2 weeks and nothing so as for me I am moving on and staying as single as I can.

Not Married Over 40

Last I spoke about the reasons that men give when they cheat. Well the other day I ran into a friend of mine that is 30yrs old and not married. I stopped him and sked him what is going on, he said that is a little depressed. I akes him why, he continued by saying that he realized how much he really was in love with his daughter's mother when she confessed to him that she does not love him anymore and is in love and has been in a realtionship with another guy for the last 3 years. He said that he wanted to explode but he could not because he was shocked at the fact that his feeling were destroyed by this news. Now here is a young good looking guy that is a mess with the ladies, and one thing is when you live in a housing project everyone will know your business. Now I told him," did it ever occur to you the crap that you have put her through" he answered, " I told her if this is how you felt when I put you through crap I am sooooo sorry" I told him," you did the right thing as a man and apologized to her for everything that you put her through and now you have to man up because what he is feeling is what we women feel when men like you have it good with a woman and f--ks it up!'

Check out the links and see for ourself the women tand the surveys on how often do men apologize.

Not Married Over 40

Ok so the question is, should we forgive our husbands or boyfriends when they are caught cheating? well first thing first, I forgave my boyfriend when I found out that he was cheating, why? well because, now I know that this is stupid, I loved him enough to forgive. well I will be the first to admit yeah STUPID. Well majority of the forgivers are women. Men seldomly forgives but they make something crazy out of it because its not them doing the cheating. In this article you can see there are alot of reasons why we women forgive, it is because our hearts are better and bigger. This article written in the Los Angelos Times by Marnell Jameson talks about when a spouse cheats, now there are alot of reasons for this and you have to think about the answer to this, in my opinion there is no right or wrong answer the reason is always the same and guess what that is.